Losing Weight; Finding Men

"Never make someone a priority in your life when you are just their option."

Sunday, March 8, 2009


Today's date was:

Saturday night, while on 3rd phone call of the day with today's potential date, he claimed out-of-the-blue that (although I'd talked to him several times a day for 7 days) he felt that I was not interested enough in him. Because during the 2nd call of the day, I told him I really couldn't talk as I was doing other things. But, he said, as if he was being gracious, that he'd meet me anyway, if I still wanted. Excuse me? I told him, "Forrrrrrrrrgeeeeeeet iiiiiiiiit!"

Then, today one hour after we had been set to meet, he leaves me a VM..."I really don't want to lose you. Please let's be friends."

My thoughts:
Lose me? Buddy, you never had me. Ummmmmmm. I swear to God, I cannot make this shit up, it is too bizarre. I talked to that guy more in the last 7 days than I even talked to the Princess of Sweden! But he's right, he did me a favor. Now I know that great restaurant exists and I can go some other time! Ha!

Let's see if Bodyguard guy can come through.



butterfly said...

LAME! Ah well, better get that one out of the way now than having wasted your time meeting someone only to find out that they're a little loopy. " I don't want to lose you". Puh-lease. Lose my number, thank you.

Graciela said...

Wow, you are really coming across some "strange-o" dudes. This last one sounds a bit...uh...psycho?

I truly admire your tenacity and good humor through all of these experiences with so-called men. I find your descriptions so funny and honest. If some of these things had happened to me, I'd have sworn off men months ago!

Sarah said...

That is so frustrating! Why do some men think that spending 3 hours a day talking to them on the phone is ok? Do they not have a life? Do they not have a house to clean? Do they not have tv shows that aren't going to watch themselves. I can't spend 3 hours talking to 1 person EVERY DAY!! What if I have to go to the bathroom. UGH!!

Maybe some people are looking for someone who will worship them and drop everything to hear their voice. Those people need to get a life.

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