Losing Weight; Finding Men

"Never make someone a priority in your life when you are just their option."

Monday, July 7, 2008

Much Hilarity

morning weight: 255 lbs

"some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies..."

Yes, thank you Carrie Bradshaw and Carolina Girl.

This might be known as the Summer of Stall and the Summer of Dating Disasters at a High Cost. So far my Chem profile has yielded not even a single guy to converse with. I've clicked off 25 matches (you're allotted 10 per day to sift through). The one guy I did get to the level of "message exchange" promptly told me his name wasn't what he said it was on his profile and his son will always be #1. Well....ok....if you think you're going to get anywhere with a woman (at least this one) be honest from the start. And secondly, most women are well aware that a divorced man's kids are going to come first. Telling them this right off the bat is a sure-fire way to dampen any interest. We don't need to be hit on the head like baby seals. That's your gender, not ours.

Grrrrr. Rant over.

1 comment:

Carolina Girl said...

Ugh totally agree. Next! This online dating thing is so stinking hard.

you're like butter to me

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