tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post3650821648104662291..comments2023-05-13T06:32:28.135-04:00Comments on Losing Weight; Finding Men: Breathe, Wax, RefocusGirl of True Hearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04062744050350668104noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-23165355555296156572010-02-21T15:55:03.597-05:002010-02-21T15:55:03.597-05:00:-( I hope a little time helps him see clearly.:-( I hope a little time helps him see clearly.S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03836235325070830218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-12114399603161140662010-02-19T22:50:51.335-05:002010-02-19T22:50:51.335-05:00i am a big believer in being yourself - if he does...i am a big believer in being yourself - if he doesn't appreciate that - that is his problem - you deserve betterlauraleihttp://lauraleiweightlessness.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-1472642145590630352010-02-18T00:57:42.050-05:002010-02-18T00:57:42.050-05:00I understand your reaction. Extreme or not. I tend...I understand your reaction. Extreme or not. I tend to do the same thing. Where your heart tends to jump 10 paces in front of your head. It doesn't happen often but when it does it happens fast. By the time your logic and mind catch up sometimes the damage is done and you are left wondering WTF?<br /><br />I still am of the firm belief that he's missing out if he's not willing to pursue things. However, you have a very valid point, if he has to dissect every emotional reaction "like an engine" there may be issues down the road.<br /><br />I don't think it's a bad time to refocus on yourself. It is selfish in the clinical term but far from derogitory. If you aren't going to look out for you then who will so you need to make sure that you are #1. You never want to be in the postion where you have to walk on eggshells. If you find yourself censoring yourself then it's time to bail...and fast!<br /><br />Regardless, you are an awesome lady and don't let this guy make you feel otherwise. But I think you are too wise for that and I can tell that even hurt you can still appreciate what this situation has made you realize in terms of opening up.<br /><br />XOXO!MissMelisaMaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13220339701774995467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-14535622488854698182010-02-17T02:58:18.961-05:002010-02-17T02:58:18.961-05:00i know how ya feel and i'm very emotional myse...i know how ya feel and i'm very emotional myself. sometimes i wish that my boyfriend would stop being like that and i analyze every little thing too! it can really hurt to feel like you are far more emotional than everyone else! and to feel rejected...it isn't pleasant. i'm sorry you are going through this. if it helps, i had one shitty ass valentine's day. always here for ya!<br />-kacy::kacy::https://www.blogger.com/profile/17026175648300413696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-70511944663353525802010-02-16T17:29:49.449-05:002010-02-16T17:29:49.449-05:00I'm sorry, and perhaps I'm biased, but a m...I'm sorry, and perhaps I'm biased, but a man that skittish isn't worth wasting your time on. NEXT! <br /><3 ya.Girl in Carolinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862955873491545349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-45214945893941899972010-02-16T14:41:39.282-05:002010-02-16T14:41:39.282-05:00I love you ladies, thanks for commenting. I agree ...I love you ladies, thanks for commenting. I agree it seems a BIT drastic of a counter-reaction to my reaction, but I'm holding my tongue for now. If he tells me all is truly lost, be sure I will have something to say in a way only a fiery Sagittarian can. I have heard the planets are mighty messed up since last week, so who knows....maybe he's having PMS (Pre-Manly Syndrome)?Girl of True Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04062744050350668104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-64646880024611969682010-02-16T14:25:25.144-05:002010-02-16T14:25:25.144-05:00I LOVE YOU! I too am disappointed in Mr S and i k...I LOVE YOU! I too am disappointed in Mr S and i know thats not where you were going with this post...but geesh!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13755834803574964576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3327756502555976318.post-44297343197092329912010-02-16T13:03:16.773-05:002010-02-16T13:03:16.773-05:00I'm very disappointed in Mr. S. If he had read...I'm very disappointed in Mr. S. If he had read your blog then he already knew you could be emotional at times (not saying that's a bad thing :)) It's your online journal/diary/safe place and for him to not realize that it would be surprising, to say the least, is inconsiderate and thoughtless of him. How would he feel if you suddenly had access to all his deepest insecurities? PASS! On to the next!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03490307436039972879noreply@blogger.com